I do realize, however, even when it's quiet, that the situation has not gone away- he is checking the swinger profiles daily, and forwarded to me a couple of emails that were received this week. (Sorry, not interested in the proposed foursome or the guy from downstate...) /
Ummmm, THIS behavior is not in any way acceptable in a "normal" marriage. So, how is there even an illusion
Well, at the moment he's not telling me how insecure I am and that I need medication...
I guess I mean it's not a constant battle going on in the house