I am hoping that things can change between my H and I am trying the DB techniques, reading other peoples threads, reading books and articles, and seriously trying to FOCUS on being a better me. Some days it works, others are not so great.
Why do you think things will change with him? What are you thinking will happen that will cause him to stop abusing you and stop being addicted to pornography?
Besides "hoping" I mean? What realistically do you see as unfolding in the future with him?
