Sandi, thanks for the input. I always love hearing your thoughts given your experience.
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Also, the fact she is asked about adding her cell phone to the family plan...she knows you can see her calls, right? Another plus! Hope you can enjoy the trip and not worry about every little thing she says/does. You need to relax and both of you enjoy this time together.
I had thought about the fact I would be able to see her calls and texting records. She's no dummy, she knows this as well. She is going to check with her current employer's cell phone contact and see if she can get a better deal, so we will see.
Also, Dia brought up an excellent point last night - that b/c it is hard for my W to reach out to me right now, I need to make this (trip and any other times where she tests the waters to reach out to me/us)as easy on her as I can. I started that last night, and I will continue to do that without rolling over completely and reverting back to a person who did not challenge her on anything. That guy's dead and gone, and he ain't coming back (sorry, but I AM a southerner).