I am at the same place you are. This is getting ridiculous, isn't it? Mine looks and acts just like yours. My ex scares me, something out of a horror movie. I do believe this is what happens when they hit bottom. They grab for anything, including marriage. I am sure mine will follow suit soon. Mine is so strapped financially that I think this is what is holding him back. I don't know though. Praying for you, I know this is hard. He is only going to be more miserable with the twit.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11