Thanks for the posts. I am already moving forward & deleting H from my life...just as he has done w/me. First step was going onto facebook & deleting his existence, including all of his friends that became mine over the years, next I will remove all photos. Once that has been completed, I will head up to bed & lock him out of the BR. Tomorrow I will discuss the timeframe in which he must remove himself from my house. I think 2 weeks is acceptable.
Hope, I'm sorry that you have to feel this anger....and have to go through this.....
But, as you being a good friend, I can't let you quit this just yet....
He said a seperation, not forever.
Sometimes that distance gives one the direction that they need to move forward with themselves. It will also give YOU a chance to live for you again. Don't look at this as a BAD thing right now.
This will give YOU a chance to deal with your stuff right now, and give you a chance to detach and become Hope again.
Wait a couple days BEFORE you make your choice, let yourself feel all of the emotion, and let the anger wear down before you decide.
Two weeks ? please, please,please
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR......Ask Trapt about that...
IF you were making this decision with a clear mind and without anger, I would have NO problem supporting you..However, you are you are neither....
Let this rest for a few....
Believe how much of what they say ?
His actions will more than likely NOT match his words....
Originally Posted By: Hopeful in VA
Everyone said I would know when I was done. I know.
Yes, cause everyone else is living your life....
Truth is, YOU are just as confused as him with all of this anger you have.....
Please slow down Hope....
I'm here if you need.....
Along with some pretty good people....
Let God work on him.....and let Hope work on Hope....
