I would say "bad = GOOD" at this point. If she is genuinely making a move back toward your marriage, then she is going to go thru fits of moods like this. Because this was NOT the path she thought she was going to walk down, and now it is, then she may be coming to grips with that.
It's not fun to admit to yourself that you were making a horrible mistake. If she does come back to the marriage, then everything she did was for naught, and she almost tore apart her family for nothing. That's depressing.
I see this over and over again on other people's threads -- it's script. Her mood will be all over the place at this point. Just validate her, be supportive BUT NOT NEEDY/GRABBY, and call her on any TOTAL b.s. if you have to, but otherwise let her be.
