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I feel better today. Pity party on the flipside!


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I find I always feel much more detached the day after a pity party. Well until the next little event rolls through and I need to pick myself up...again! It is getting easier though, on the whole, with smaller reactions from me as I can detach after the events quicker.

Go the happy hour!

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I`m with you on the small reactions SR! Yeah, it sure does help not to jump into full blown crazy mode when the Alien appears!

Good on ya with looking after your appearance MB! And go for the wedges I say. I pretty much freaked out on shoes after H flipped. One of the great things I did for me.Your H will notice too.

And yeah, I still get a little hot at the mere thought of Mark Ryan`s torso!That movie was a really good laugh!

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Torso? What Torso? I didn't even notice... wink


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
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Hey Grasshopper,

So you reckon the intimacy thing, is the spark still there, its behind the wall, or you need to do the work on the spark??

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"That's what I'm talkin' about..."

I think the spark needs some work.

I know the like, the love, and respect are there, just think the spark needs to be re-ignited.


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
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Hey Grasshopper,

So you reckon the intimacy thing, is the spark still there, its behind the wall, or you need to do the work on the spark??


Noobs kill me...I was a Noob once and finally "got it" after a good buddy beat me over the head time and time again...

Noobs spend their days trying to "figure it out"..

You can't figure this out..

The intimacy thing.....ya need to stop speculating, guessing...and all that...your husband will be intimate when he is ready...

until then..

get busy livin' or get busy dyin'...the choice is yours..

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hi mb, so you are comtemplatin' sparkin' a fire are ya?


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No Worries M from T!

My next comment was going to be seek male advice on how to deal with it!

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what if ya'll got 'em drunk and took advantage of him?

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