this is what i meant by waste of time - if i go through family court and h argues it is invalid because we belong in suprememe court, family court will not have jurisdiction - meaning my time spent filling out paperwork and waiting at family court is a waste because they cant handle the case.

do not have his address, everything comes here.

i will talk to my lawyer about how to best handle it.

lost in iowa, i would still forgive and still take him back but i am at the survival point now where i cant give in anymore, cant share the proceeds of furniture because i would be left with nothing and i refuse to fund his affair any further when i need the money to move and live.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09