W said I am just waiting for her to say hello, give me a kiss or say ILY. But that was it. Of course that is the detachment working but I am not sure it went the right way for me.
Can you clarify this for me?
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W then said she was trying to remember the happiness we, her and I alone, had before kids and she cant find it. Pre-Kids would be almost 11 years ago.
Ok don't pay any mind to this. My W did the same exact thing. She basically reduced it down to this: she was never in love with me, we never really had a marriage, all we ever really did was screw and not make love, etc... they re-write the past in order to justify what they are thinking and feeling now. They have to do this to rationalize their behavior.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!