Doodles, is there a way that you can serve him with the child support paperwork? How do you figure letting it go to court would be a waste of time?
I decided that I didnt want to ask H for anything until the D because I wanted to take him to the cleaners during the D. Not sure if that is what would happen or not, probably not because the system in Ak is a little screwy. More than anything, I didnt want to feel like I owed him.
I agree with LnI, you have been very strong, not letting this woman bully you anymore, or your H for that matter, not letting him eat cake, or push you around about the funiture and the money from selling it.
Doing what needs to be done, even though you are scared, is my personal definition of brave, and you have done that again and again.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...