My H told me he was filing for D the day before I started back to school last year. I teach also. I finally went back to school two weeks after it was in session. He kept telling me there was no one else. He finally admitted it two months later. He then told me ten days before Christmas that he filed for D. He was acting so strange, very unlike the H I was used to. Everything was happening so fast. I finally discovered this site, and it all made sense to me. He was saying everything to the "T". He had found the MLC manual and memorized the script well. I have a thread going on Newcomers that tells what's going on with me. It's called " Who Is This Stranger Living In My House".
There is a great website "Rejoice Marriage Ministries" that has given me a lot of comfort through this. You may want to check it out.
Hang in there... My D has been in the process for seven months now, and we are still living in the same house. It was so very hard at first, but the way I look at it now, he is a sick man. The ow has herself an MLCer, lucky her. She does not have my DH. He would never have done this.
I've given GOD complete control over this. HE is the ONE who has given me the strength to face each day.
