I went to the web site and read through it all. Some of it makes sense and other parts don't. I guess it's the part of me that can't detatch that does not understand.

I did like the poem in it and can possibly start there with some things.

Spy...So does that mean that you are going to be filing for divorce? I have already filed but everythign is on hold. I am hoping that things can change between my H and I am trying the DB techniques, reading other peoples threads, reading books and articles, and seriously trying to FOCUS on being a better me. Some days it works, others are not so great.

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09