he was back, i think

[lost-n-Iowa]

I am not sure if the laws in NY are different than they are here in Iowa but when I filed for divorce on my H, one of the first things that my lawyer did was filed for what was called an injuction. It was said that my H could not sell, hide, or move maritail assests around, including his 401k, his pension, or his annuity account. Why would it be a waste of time to go to the supreme court to get support?


Can your lawyer file something like that instead of having to do the supreme court thing? I had my lawyer state that I could not do it either and he simple took it to the judge and the judge signed it. I did not have to be present and my H was then served that paper along with everything else. Just an idea.

Why don't you have an address? Did he change where his mail is going? What about anything from the bank that may have a different address on it? Go to anywho.com and put her name in to see if it pops up an address, if that is where he is staying? Where are his lawyer papers going? There has to be some way to find out what the address is.

And yes you are strong. I keep caving in for my husband, keep putting up with the BS and then forgiving it and trying to keep making a go at something that is probably a dead end. I am not strong enough to just stand up for myself, walk away, and stop beating a dead marriage.