Hopeful - he has that MLC script down and you fell for it. Go ahead and get mad, take him off of anything you want to...tonight. Tomorrow you can put him back on. It's okay to be done for now...but you can change your mind and everyone will be here for you when you do or if you don't.

I know that you are hurting right now. MC is not always the best solution. Take time to think through all that was said. Write all your feelings down and throw them away...or send them to the MC like I did. grin The words I used to our MC counselor were "bite me." I never regretted saying them and we never went back.

I think you need to vent a little more here so that the friends you have here can lift you up and support you through all of this.

It's hard to have them at home. I know. I think you will regret telling him to leave. It's hard to have them gone too. Just please give it the 48 hour rule.

Take care and breathe deeply.