Thanks for the posts. I am already moving forward & deleting H from my life...just as he has done w/me. First step was going onto facebook & deleting his existence, including all of his friends that became mine over the years, next I will remove all photos. Once that has been completed, I will head up to bed & lock him out of the BR. Tomorrow I will discuss the timeframe in which he must remove himself from my house. I think 2 weeks is acceptable.

Everyone said I would know when I was done. I know.

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!