I just don't know what to tell you. I did tell my H that if he wanted to be with me, he will have to move near me. I am no longer willing to move for......anyone....let alone him. Do what is best for you. Can you find a job in this new place? Will you have emotional support nearby? What are you giving up and are you sure u are willing to give those things up?
I am new to this board and not really doing as well as a lot of people......but, this is what i thought and told him when he asked about moving. For me, I just no longer feel comfortable Doing anything active for him.
You guys have been separated for a couple of years.....so, you may have a better grip on this than I do. My H served me papers on 4/28/09 and our D hearing is set for 9/11/09.
