Puppy, yes, I'm not saying anything about her packing. I tried the conversation thing a couple of wks ago (not really begging, but I was asking questions and making statements that I thought would help -- they obviously didn't) and that didn't work.

I guess I'm asking for advice here. I'm still talking to her (a little), but not about what she's doing at the moment. Won't confronting her make matters worse? If you think confronting is what's needed, what should one say from your persective?


Me:41
W: 36
No Kids

EA&PA: JUL08-OCT08 & MAY09-fwd

W said we may not make it: JAN09
W said she doesn't want R: 5/8/09,6/5/09,7/19/09
Moved out: 7/31/09

Married: OCT03
Together: NOV00