say nothing, for 30 days, go out, start to enjoy life.
maybe you should consider dating! bet that would kill her. --------------------------------
My goal is to reconcile not get back at her. I am very angry of course for what she did / is going, but I'm trying to control my emotions.
So far I haven't spoken about her packing the boxes. I'm waiting for her to initiate the conversation. I think she will probably move out this week (not sure if she is taking off of work or what). I also have no idea where she is moving (to OM's or to an apartment)? I did notice that the boxes are from the OM's house (his name is on them!). He must've given them to her! It's very upseting! I've been good about not contacting him since I know him (I used to work with him), but part of me wants to tell him to stay away...
Me:41 W: 36 No Kids
EA&PA: JUL08-OCT08 & MAY09-fwd
W said we may not make it: JAN09 W said she doesn't want R: 5/8/09,6/5/09,7/19/09 Moved out: 7/31/09
