Just wanted to drop in and say hi. Sounds like you are still up and down a little. I hope you realize that you have a lot to offer and his issues aren't your fault. I see MsM told you her husband said the ssame thing about wanting to start over. Mine did too. I think in a lot of ways they don't know how to deal with this any better than we do and they are grasping for words that explain their feelings. But they don't quite get there.
My wife and I are getting along fantastic. That is as far as friends with no expectations. I think that is good and the longer I am out of my marriage the more I begin to see things that I wouldn't want to go back to. However I still care deeply for her but my focus is in other places.
as my friend I really hope that you start to feel more comfortable with the situation and find what you really want out of this. sounds like your job is going really well and that is good!
