what "us" is there to talk about. she moved out. seems to me from your description of your interactions with her that she wants to relive life before the kids.
i'd dare you to try and get some action but keep your heart out of it till she is willing to make some sort of commitment.
Im not letting her do anything else. Yet again Im lost as to what you are trying to say... im simply showing what she is doing and how im not giving into her games looking for me to ask her back.
Im showing her I can still interact with her but im not showing her any effection but rather im doing my own thing and i have no on going interst to "win her back" simple as that. as far as i see im following DB suggestions
infact IDK if i would could take her back. I feel I need to decide that after we get to that point if we get to that point. She has done alot of harm to me and the kids in her selfish choices.
