I see both sides of the discussion. It is very weird and confusing.
I wound up calling the boys tonite as it was getting late. I had thought it would be late as my 7 year old had soccer tonite, but didn't want to miss the chance to talk to my boys.
She picked up and said that they were still watching their show. I tried to say I would just call back later, but she said she started talking about her day and various other things before she put the boys on.
I talked to the boys and then hung up.
So it is now day 2 being away from home.....
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13