OK. I couldn't NOT respond to this. I haven't been on the boards for awhile, but my husband is saying THE SAME THINGS. He says he hasn't shut the door on us remarrying after the divorce. But, he says he's going through with the divorce, because he "said so" and "is a man of his word". Well, way to be a man of your word, even when it hurts your family!
Oh, and I forgot, another reason he's going through with the divorce is so I will start to take him seriously. Well, seriously is costing us about $20,000. Hope it's worth it.
Meanwhile he wants me to move to another town with him (seperately, of course). With no promise of reconciliation, no commitment, nothing. And, a big part of me is thinking this is OK, and that if I take a leap of faith, my family may be whole again someday. ..
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
