First post - was a lurker, now need to talk

[Jayce]

Hi, Margali. Just one thing. When he says something about ML later, or this afternoon, or whatever, don't wait for him to go ahead with it, take him up on it right then. My H is the original Mr. "Yeah, We Could". I'd say something about we could fool around later, go in the hot tub, sit outside, stand on our heads & whistle Dixie in the middle of the street....and that was his answer. He'd then go about his usual day/evening, probably TV & falling asleep without following through. (he's pretty LD). Then say "Well, you never mentioned it again." So not his fault. Now when he says that I follow up right then. "OK, when you're done cutting the grass, or after dinner? Right now?" Even better, "OK, come get me when you're ready."After all, he's not the one who has to worry about rejection.

So when your guy makes a similar kind of statement, go for it right then. An enthusiastic, fun, remark letting him know you're on it, ready right now, stripping on the spot or something that may sound outrageous to you, but will sure get your point across, "Yes, I really DO want to, right now is fine!" Otherwise he can weasel out & blame it on your lukewarm response. Good luck with this.
Jayce