Other than not thinking about my W, I'm doing fine. I am working. I'm doing things I like. I socialize quite well when I leave the apartment. I am making friends. I socialize fine at work. I take care of my responsibilities.

While I miss my W its not stopping me from functioning and doing things. I am starting to do more than I used to. I am slowly getting through this. I'm not as bad off as I used to be. I am plenty able to go out and have a good time with other people. I leave W alone. I don't have the most active life in the world, but then I have never been the most active person in the world. But I am enjoying friends when I don't have my kids and when I do have my kids I enjoy my time with them.

Ok yes. It is hard to see W knowing the state of mind she is in. But I am keeping it together in front of her. And I do want any opportunity to put my best foot forward.

Stuck, we haven't talked about it recently.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...