back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

So here is the update after MC. MC asked what commitment we had. I said to see it through to making a better marriage. W said no matter which way she turns it she doesn't see much happiness in our future. W thinks we will just stay living our lives just the way they are, her in her room and me somewhere else in the house.

W said I am just waiting for her to say hello, give me a kiss or say ILY. But that was it. Of course that is the detachment working but I am not sure it went the right way for me. (thought on this would be great). W then said she was trying to remember the happiness we, her and I alone, had before kids and she cant find it. Pre-Kids would be almost 11 years ago.

W said I need to work on myself. No details nothing else. Also I need to go out more. Said I was and have been working on that. W said another secret mission that I didn't let her know. I said I own that and I will do better to tell her when I am trying to make plans and not just when I have plans.

There were more about bad things and trust issues and a few things came up that were supposed to have been resolved according to her admission but she still used them. MC asked what we would be doing and W said living as individuals. I said we are still married and should act that way. We are individuals that are married. I left it at that.

MC left it up to us to see if we wanted to come back or not. He said we as a couple have the most potential and can easily save what we have. And he said he cant say that about many of his clients. Not everyone has the potential to recover and save their marriage, we do. We had an absolutely silent ride back home. Not one word uttered.

Any thoughts. I will post details from the morning which are now even more odd given what happened at MC. Detaching but not sure what to do next. W's school thing is looming, vacation in just a few weeks and then kids back in school. Some of these I am looking forward to and other's...blahh