W is having Affair -- may leave soon -- thread 2

[SavingMyMarriage]

Thanks for the feedback Puppy, but other than kicking her out of the house, what other actions or words are appropriate at this time?

You're correct in that I've not communicated how I feel via my actions. I have however told her verbally how I felt a few weeks ago. I spoke about boundaries, respect, etc.

I do see your point and others. It's a fine line -- kicking her out might push her further into the OM's arms, but then again, it might communicate to her that I'm serious about our R.

I know I can't change the past (my pleading, begging, crying, etc.). I do want to do what's right going forward...