After you take care of business (TCB) fill Mrs GIMA in on the details.
Done.
Earlier this morning, before the call for me to talk to S, I sent her a spreadsheet I created to show her our financial picture without her working. Our finances was something pre-bomb I had not helped with - other than earning, so I want to change that. The spreadsheet was meant to show her we can make it on just my salary. That and to show her through my actions that I was stepping up to the plate on a financial issue.
Also, she sent me an email asking what she should do about an issue re vacation pay with her job. She then sent my several IM's about her day and how they have told her her last day is Thursday. At Sandi's suggestion yesterday (thanks), I worked in that it was her employer's loss and that she would have been great at that job - and she would have been. She said "Thx" and then went on to talk about how they really did not let her do the job. I validated and validated, said it sounded like her boss felt threatened by W. I was very careful to work in the compliments subtly and and different points of the conversation - tried sprinkling them in.
We shall just have to see which W I will see when I get home. Happy, bff W or withdrawn, don't get too close to me W.
