Have you ever had to deal with one of those people who, for whatever reason, had to tell a lie...and then had to keep telling other lies to support the first one? And still more lies to support the others?

Yes, I've actually been one of those people. Lied to cover my @ss many times when I was a teenager...oh wait, that's the age H is acting!

Giving it my all - all opinions welcome - thanks for posting. Hope things are going better in your neck of the woods.

Mach - I'll stick in MLC. I know I have mentioned this here before, but...I was told very distinctly as I was praying when this all started that I would be given answers w/in 30 days. During that timeframe I was pointed in the direction of what happens to adult children of narcissistic families of origin. Then, after reading MLC archives, I realized that it also tied in w/MLC. I have to go with it.

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!