So figure I would share an interesting exchange H and I just had... I'm trying to go see a movie tonight and H is suppose to stop by tonight. I text him saying that I'm going out to see a movie and what time will he be by. Hoping that he will take on the pursuit role and say he wants to come with me. He then thought I was going out with someone and said if you have plans go ahead. I realized then in our talk that h is thinking I'm goibng out with other people and started to get insecure and I'm thinking that why won't he try to come with me. So then I said I think we're speaking two different language here and In put it out there that I want him to pursue and and ast to come and he thought I wanted tojust go with my friends. Ahhh, just an example of once you try to piece things together its all still complicated.