I wasn't getting the "my wife and I are reconciled, just had a fab overseas vaca, there are no tire tracks proving further communications, but, yet... I still want to drop the bomb on another spouse who will, in turn, confront her spouse, who will in turn, start a new string of coms between my W and me."
I don't get it.
I guess I would understand if there were proof they were still in communicado... ya know?
Dgtal... If it's true that you and W are truly reconciling, and you are confident in her no contact agreement, and things are starting to feel good/normal again, WHY? WHY? WHY?
MB
PS - I'm dying to see that letter, btw. (nosey!)
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.