I just got an email from H saying he has cancelled all the direct debits for all of my bills and rent today and let me know what they were.

I am angry as we had agreed to sit down and talk about this before he did it, but that never happened. And its going to put me in a bad place as all of this will need to be sorted before the bills go out in only a few days time, plus some other problems this creates.

I am about to email back

Hi
Thanks for the info.
I wish you would have talked to me about this before you did it, like we agreed.
Give me a call when you can to discuss the change over. As you know all of these bills will be needing paid in only a few days time since its the beginning of the month so please dont leave it too long. I dont want my rent to not be paid bc its last minute.

Does this sound too angry or too long? She I just call H myself? I haven't initiated any contact in over a week and was trying to stick to it?

Any advice?


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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