I have been dealing for the last 7 months with a partner who started an affair while away on a long term temporary assignment for work. Now the job assignment has ended, the OW has been staying here in our town with my W, she is selling her house, moving here and looking for a job. :-(
I, of course, want to get it back together with my W and move us forward. She does not- at least not yet. I am ever hopeful while I am DB'ing. :-)
I wish you the best of luck. It is a hard process, and demands A LOT of patience.
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
