Jimbo - I think what is really bothering me about those points I keep bringing up...is that I want OTHER people to see the MLC crazy. Not at the expense of a relationship w/our kids. I just hate that his mask is so good. I want some cracks to appear. I don't want people thinking "Wow, they must not have had a good M behind closed doors." I know, I know, it shouldn't matter...

Mach - you have a point w/the word "rational". Yeah, I do think it is an escape to occupy himself long enough to shove those demons out of his head and to once again stuff down his feelings.

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!