I feel like by bringing up him moving out it will start our first R talk since That Conversation (early June). At that time, he said he felt he was done with our marriage and didnt want to be with me any more. Since then, there has been no hint of R talk, things have been very calm but that talk is hanging over both of us.
I don't want to instigate an R talk as right now he seems in deep withdrawal and he may well say he still feels that way and cement his position if he is unsure of his R position. We are getting the friend thing better since June, I feel thats as much as I can expect right now?
So there is us, a wall (his withdrawal/depression), and an elephant (the he wants out now part) in the room right now! I would like to kick the elephant out at least, but he needs to be the one to do that, in his own time if that happens. It will still be a few months till sales are finalised though, so I was planning on trying to build up the friendship as much as possible by then to give the best chance of postponing him moving out once sales completed.
