My wife had an emotional affair with a married man

[Steve McQueen]

let us see it

[mindfull]

Wow

Is it me or is there a communication/language barrier here?

[Steve McQueen]

what you mean?

[mindfull]

Blonde moment...

I wasn't getting the "my wife and I are reconciled, just had a fab overseas vaca, there are no tire tracks proving further communications, but, yet... I still want to drop the bomb on another spouse who will, in turn, confront her spouse, who will in turn, start a new string of coms between my W and me."

I don't get it.

I guess I would understand if there were proof they were still in communicado... ya know?

Dgtal... If it's true that you and W are truly reconciling, and you are confident in her no contact agreement, and things are starting to feel good/normal again, WHY? WHY? WHY?

MB

PS - I'm dying to see that letter, btw. (nosey!)

[Puppy Dog Tails]

He doesn't listen. There's either something else he's not telling us, or he's really just that vindictive.

[mindfull]

PDT... Got it.

[bluerain]

Dgtal, Im not sure that you read my post in your other thread, but I feel strongly about it, so Ill say it again.

When your intention is to cause pain to someone, to harm them pysically or emotionally, it doenst matter, it is a bad idea. Even if you feel like its deserved.

I really think that if you send it, its likely that he will contact your W... Is that something that you want? And I am fairly certain that her reaction will not be favorable, no you know what, even if none of this happens, this isnt my point.

Things are going good for you, you are in a position many of us would thank our lucky stars for... Dont tempt Karma.

[dgtal]

ok BLUERAIN...Thanks for your valuable advise. I'm trying to concentrate a little more in my problem rather than wasting time on the OM side. Also trying to stay away fron the Internet which already has caused lot of trouble in my marriage. I'm just using my laptop exclusively here in my office. I can see my wife face everytime I turn my computer at home. I decided not to go online at home. I've being a little slow to keep this treat up to date. But I'm here, meassuring my progress. Going well , Thanks GOD!!!

[dgtal]

Should I paste what I wrote here? I just read what I wrote myself and I dont like it. if I ever write something to his wife it would be something like ..."Be alert. Your husband is calling my wife. I found his phone number in my wife cellular phone call history dated July through August 2008 numerous times. God knows what the hell was what I discovered but counting 33 calls in only 30 days is good enough to get vigilant..."That's it...not too elaborated. I wrote a long 5 paragraph letter which I already decided not to send.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Are you for real, dgtal? This is a gag, right???