No, I don't think his actions are consistant. I believe the football coaching & things of that nature are not necessarily done as a dad, but as something HE WANTS to do.

And yes, I have been known to revisit a house once or twice on Halloween!

Well, I have MC tonight. I have to be prepared. Prepared for what? I guess to just be me. The new & improved me. If H says he is done with the M, maybe I should just say "That is great bc as time has gone by, I've begun to wonder what it would be like to find someone else. Someone I could have a REAL R with. Someone who I could truly know, who doesn't stuff their feelings down inside & someone who is not an empty shell of a person. Maybe that someone could be you one day if you ever decide to take off your mask".

I wonder how that would go over LOL

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!