Since he's watching you closely, he'll be sure to notice any flinch. If he looks at you odd, or asks you about it, tell him... "You know what, H? I'm stuck here, and a little nervous and sad. I'm impressed by your initiative and interest in our finances, but am concerned because the subject of the sale of these assets surfaced during a conversation that involved the extra cash assisting in you moving out, and separation for us. You know I don't want that, and worry that this will expedite a process I don't support."
Sorry if wordy. I can't condense it any better, but you get my point!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.