ok, so what's between LRT and Piecing? I'm not sure we're precisely in LRT anymore but we're not in Piecing either. I have been walking a fine line between not pursuing and trying to fill his love tank. And yeah, the note was pure pursuing - but it *worked*. And some of the other small things I've done have been working, too.
So at the moment, filling the love tank drop by drop seems to be working. He's responding and warming to me. I can't push it too fast but I feel pretty strongly that some of the DB techniques will make him feel rejected and unwanted...
Don't mind me... just my usual flailing about. I think I'm doing pretty well all things considered - but suggestions and knocks upside the head are always welcome!
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137