Questions for you & I know everyone is sick of the same ones, but...
1. I see no evidence of OW. Let me tell you I am one smart cookie & darn sneaky at that, I can't find a thing. Oh I believe there COULD be one, but if there isn't it's one thing that doesn't fit w/MLC.
2. I see no evidence of financial abuse.
3. Aside from him being gone all the time playing bball & fishing (which I attribute to him wanting to get away from ME), I don't see any type of disconnect from the kids or any of his other responsibilites. He will tickle the kids, put them to bed, coaching S's football team, etc.
Did you ever go Trick-or-treating and have like two or three different costumes cause Mrs Jones on Main street gave out the FULL SIZE candy bars, and you could hit her house more than once ?
Same person, but a different mask.......
Hmmmm.....
MLC affects everyone differently. And to some, it is the complete uprooting of everything in thier lives.
To others, they seem to remain as normal as usual, except for the demons are tearing them up inside.
The facade that they wear will vary from one day to the next.
Are his actions consistant?
Or are they occasional.
MLC attacks the root of their character, and sometimes the personality remains fairly intact through it....
Each MLC is like a snowflake.....the same but completely different.
