LOL, my wife's psychic reading was way more interesting than that. wish I didnt know about it.
I came to this site to better understand the concept of a walk away wife. Thinking I must have been neglectful and self-centered throughout my marriage. Maybe I spent too much time focusing on the kids; maybe I was too concerned about a career, you know, gotta have the volvo, the house and the landscape the toys and memberships, the kids need to be cool and that costs money. $hit mom and dad need to be cool too hes working his butt off. But I wasnt neglectful nor self-centered; I was a very loving caring husband. I took pride in being just that.
So whats going on? This whole MLC thing is just so bizarre. I could probably deal with her running off or another man in the picture more so than a ghost monk who is guiding her spirit through this lifetime. It has been going on for far too long and has taken its toll on me. I cannot understand it and she is just too mean to me and the kids.
Is this where I stand? Was this a friday night suicide note for my marriage (that after watching a hanna montana marathon with the kids)? or maybe a last ditch effort for a wake up call to my wife? Not sure yet. I have no plans on giving her this note, but I feel it will be coming out of mouth one day soon.
I have learnt so much from this site. Not just about relationships but about myself. Michelle's book is a playbook but not in the normal sense. In conjuction with this site, it really makes you look outside the sitch you are living in to ask is what I am doing working, what else can I try and honestly am I happy. Being in a relationship is a wonderful thing. It really does bring out the best of ones self. But when it doesnt or stops to do so or you find yourself just hurting and lonely, you begin to ask yourself some serious questions. And you begin hoping for answers.
Humor and wit? Thank you. what is it all about, I think in the midst of all of this loss and confusion you need to remain happy about yourself and if you are lucky find humor in it, because after all it is just life, not the life you planned for X number of years ago, but it still is yours you have to live with it. I see alot of people seriously hurting on this site. Hurting and hanging on for crumbs of attention while they are being disrespected and losing their last bits of self-esteem and confidence. I apologize if my comments are not in line with what someone wants to hear. But honestly I do really hate reading you are so unhappy.
Am I done? YES. I am done giving and giving and trying and trying and over and over again. She is far to mean. She is not normal. It is not working. You go through alot of stages understanding yourself, understanding someone else understanding your relationship with them. I have come to the point I dont know what else to do. thanks for reading, Steve McQueen.
