I know a lot of people want their WAS close at hand to witness any changes they make. Personally I found it extremely difficult to detach while having constant contact.
Use the distance to your advantage. You have the time and space to really work on yourself. Do not worry about working on your M, really focus on doing what is best for you.
What are your GAL activities? Have you examined your past behavior to see how you contributed to your R problems? How are you addressing them?
I agree with Puppy that you will have to determine what your boundaries are and be prepared to communicate them. But don't obsess about it. Keep your focus on what you want your life to be.
Last edited by pearlharbr; 07/28/0904:04 PM.
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