I am not going to argue anymore with you about this. You dont just think about your W - you obsess and chatter. Wasnt it just a few weeks ago you were thinking of having a 3rd party call her to invite her to a marriage saving seminar?
I see a difference, clearly you do not.
I have been at this for 19 months. I am very clear on the definition of detachement. Yes, I think about my H from time to time but I dont wonder about what he is doing, I dont talk about how good he looks on the rare occasion I see him and I dont think about how much easier it would be if we could work as a team (as you thought just a few days ago regarding your D and her being sick). As observers to your posts, we see things you do not see. And when they are pointed out to you, to be used as a learning or eye opening tool, you quote scripture. So I think we have reached a stalemate. Thats cool.
Like I said - you and I have different definitions. Do what you like. Its your life and your future. But you may consider drawing on some of the "vets" experience that have a different outlook instead of just sticking to the posters that agree with you 110%. Diversity does have its place in the learning and growing process.
