I feel like again you opted not to dive into the post I made.
I read everything you said. I agree that there are tools that help out in this process. I am picking up some tools starting with this book. I will continue to explore more tools.
I definitely get accountability here. I get it from my kids. I get it from my W by her reactions or lack there of. I get it from FaithfulH. I get it from God. When me and my priest discuss it which is not often, I get it from him. I am still thinking over the AA thing. I am also thinking over the gym which isn't to far away and a decent price so I can lift weights.
I only have so much time to read this, read that, do this, do that, etc. So I am picking and choosing what fits in best for myself.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...