Thank you for the responses! It's so nice to have a place to turn to where people understand what I am going through. I have read Divorce Remedy. When he first told me he wanted a divorce, I was shocked, I was upset, I cried. But since then I have been trying to be upbeat when I speak to him and not letting him see my pain. Of course as soon as I get off the phone I fall apart. I have been doing my best to make myself happy as hard as it is. I am concerned about repeat infidelity and it's nothing I want to deal with for years to come. But I do want to work out our marriage. I haven't been calling him and he hasn't called me much either. It's so hard trying to work on things when he's so far away. As far as I know I don't think he has any intentions on coming back to the state we live in for a while.
