I do need the help of my brother right now however I don't need the crap...
I understand completely that no one agrees with the choice I have made - That is fine however do I really need to hear about it each and every single day? The answer is no...
We may not agree on the choices I have made however how many times do I have to say...It is my life, my choice? The answer is at least 3 times a day...And quite frankly I am tired of saying it...
I wish people would let me be...
Let me live with my choice and keep their traps shut...
They have stated their case, my mind isn't changing so leave it alone...
That would help me very very much...
Serenity - have you tried to tell those who won't keep their opinions to themselves thank you but no thank you? Let them know YOU are trying to figure this out for yourself and if and when you want their advice, you will ask for it. Meanwhile, could they please just be a 'friend' and listen? Tell them kindly that you appreciate their concern but their two cents is causing you more heartache. If they can't understand that, then just bluntly tell them you will no longer discuss the sitch with them. PERIOD!
Serenity the outside world may not understand why you are doing what you are doing but each and every person on the board does. You are never alone.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
I did have a long chat with my Brother and we are good...
I am still looking for my own place though...
I have been getting phone messages left for me telling me what I need to do and how I need to handle this so I will probably change my number as well...
Ash you are correct..."The outside world may not understand why you are doing what you are doing but each and every person on the board does. You are never alone."
Truer words have never been spoken...To bad we don't know each other IRL....May help some us more then others...
It has been 18 days since he left and feels like forever...I thought I saw him this morning but not sure...Still had the butterflies I get everytime I look at his handsome face
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
I'm in tears - a grown bloke in tears! Tears of happiness for you and yours.
I wish I was half as strong as you. Puppy's wise words about getting all this in one lump and that the Guy/Gal/Whoever upstairs hanging back stuck a HUGE chiming chord in me as well.
The people who have posted on your thread are simply superb with their kind thoughts in my humble opinion (for what thats worth). You truly are blessed.
Now push off out the way so I can give your younglings a hug from Uncle Mac (not taking over from you honest!). You gotta share sometimes though
Huge hugs - off to the freezer to see if I can chip anything edible from the lump of ice on the bottom. Wages didn't arrive. My b&^%$# partner has now started with the "I make the payments on the 28th" not what it should be "your wages will be in your account on the 28th!". I found THAT out when I tried the store here for the books - declined Will try tomorrow morning. Soddit!
Don't worry though. Your namesake fishy, Stick, Ashley the big dog and Scrappy the tiddler dog are all fed and watered. I'll take care of myself.
AND I've decided that the W must look after herself!
Gonna pop off to my home here soon to see what's in the inbox
More than a few 2 x 4's I'm sure. I'll handle the pummeling.
No worries I had my fair share of tears last night...
Took the advice of some of the people here and had a mini-breakdown in the privacy of my room...
Cleansing actually but I had to stop after 10 minutes and put those feelings back in a box for now...
I ranted for a few and yelled at God (apologized later)...Asked Him how much more?
Told my Brother he wouldn't break me...
Didn't return the phone calls of the people who left the messages...
Just hung with my little one...
Had a row with my older one so he left (went to my Moms' house)...
He needs to handle his anger better and just won't let me help...
He is mad I cried...
Told me to just let go of hubby and move on...
Told you I get it from all sides
Good for you allowing her to look after herself...
I am proud of you...
Welcome back to the dark side
I hope you have found something to eat...
I actually ate something today finally...
Good for the rest of the week lol...
I am fasting starting tomorrow...
I will be baptized on Sunday and want to look nice
Not that anyone will be there however God will be as well as my Church family and that is good enough for me...
A thought for you to ponder (don't know who said it)...
"God whispers in your soul & speaks to your mind. Sometimes when you don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at you. It's your choice; Listen to the whisper or wait for the brick."
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Not that anyone will be there however God will be as well as my Church family and that is good enough for me...
So, clearly not all sides I will say a celebration prayer and think of you Sunday (what time?)
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
"God whispers in your soul & speaks to your mind. Sometimes when you don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at you. It's your choice; Listen to the whisper or wait for the brick."
"(Whisper,)" said God. "Duck!," said everyone on this forum. "Bonk!," said all the bricks in unison.
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Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Will try tomorrow morning. Soddit!
