No at this point and maybe never they don't see what they are doing to us. You did the right thing for you in terms of the job because you would not have been able to focus well. My H wanted me to work more at the beginning of all of this. He actually asked me if I expected him to carry the whole thing. Well, I work part time and make what most make full time. I have a son who is very busy and needs me, so no I was not going to work more. Yes I told him, I expect him to do exactly what we had always been doing because I was not going to alter anything for my son simply because H wanted what he wanted. Not very good DBing, but I am not going to let him out of all of his responsibilities and that was made clear at the beginning. So, if your H has been the breadwinner, I don't see a problem keeping it that way although as you have already seen, he does.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
