I think it is way too common on this site for the BS spouse to read too much into meaningless conversations and treat their cheating wifes like everything is fine and dandy.
Originally Posted By: SavingMyMarriage
"Okay, I see you in a few minutes then.".
????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? sorry to be cruel, but why? you know where shes been you know what shes done. what are you thinking when you ask her how her trip went?
Originally Posted By: SavingMyMarriage
"She then said, "How are you? What did you do this weekend?" I told her what I did and she said, "Oh good", as if she was concerned since she was with OM the last four days.
concerned? you really think so? I think if she broke down and said, "OMG. i have really messed up our lifes. i have a serious problem. i love you. what can i do to rebuild trust and love. i dont want to lose you." she would be concerned. i think she is just disrespectful to you.
You need to give her the impression, no, the reality that this is not fine that you have more self worth than allowing this to happen explanation point
