How long does it take to get to the...I love you, but I am done stage? Seems like people have been on here for years before they get there. I don't know if I can wait that out. I guess everyone is different?

I just read an article about the health risks of divorce...sigh..I just loved the safety and security of marriage and I can't believe this has happened. frown

Just feeling sorry for myself this morning.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B