It's always hard for me to read posts from other people about what went wrong in their marriages because I just wish I had seen what needed to be done years ago in my own marriage. My h was/is not a good communicator and we just sort of went along through the years until I got the 'bomb' this past May. I try hard to listen to Snodderly's advice that this would have happened at some point in our marriage, but that often surely doesn't seem to be enough compensation for where we are right now.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
