Everyone wants to put the MLC label on every bomb. This might be, this might not be. She might just be tired.
I am glad you washed the dishes. I always told my H that there wasn't anything sexier than a man that washed dishes. : )
Instead of getting tied up into labels, and reading journals that were accidentally on purpose left out for you to read, how about you make a list of what you need to change about you?
Man, my list was pretty scary the first time I wrote it out, but there are actually things I can cross off now. It takes three weeks for something to become a habit, btw.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.